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Single Ladies: The Boy

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Single Ladies:The Boy

*Beyonce wave*Single ladies!How have you been?Has any one of us found Mr Put-A-Ring-On-It amongst our potential candidates?Do not fret,your guide is here.

Hmmm,has anyone met a boy.I mean literary,a boy.Well he is ehmm,man number 4.I personally,am not a fan of 'boys'.(I am more into mature males).Anyway,Mr Put-A-Ring-On-It can be anyone so I will not rule out the 'boy'.

The boy is the one,irregardless of age,who most likely is living with his parents,(or if you are lucky,alone in a 'bachelor pad'),and behaves young,wild and free.He tends to be carefree and needs someone to pick up after him.(Needs a babysitter and maid).

The ups of boy,fun,fun,fun.You will feel like a teenage girl,exploring the world.For a few minutes all your cares,are taken away.He has little baggage from the past,(unlike divorced man).No baby mama drama,(although if he is a 'mama's boy',you will have his mama to deal with *smile wryly*).Is not that 'bliss'?

But then again,we not looking for a 'toy boy',per se. Chances of the boy wanting to put a ring on it,are,err.If you are single lady,who is a single mother,then that one is very tricky.Already the word 'commitment' gets him cringing,what more the word 'responsibility' would probably mortify him.(Having to take care of himself,and then the next person,'single lady'....and maybe a kid or two).

The boy rarely wants to grow up.But,he does come to a point of realization,although,he might be a bit 'slow' at that.Anyway,if you are a patient single lady and the boy has 'intentions',(if he wants to play,forget it),of that 'ring-on-it',then yes,wait for him.(Ehmm).

But ladies,boy can be a potential Mr Put-A-Ring-On-It.The one who can make actually make you happy,(Just make sure,to treat him like a King.King is man.And your man).

Well,all the best in the quest.In the meantime we can work on being 'queens'.Until we meet again,(we still have a few more candidates,and lessons to learn)....*Single ladies wave*....

P.S: Always write your own love story.

Ciao!

Lady E

www.therealladye@blogspot.com

Copyright[c] MPV by Lady E All Rights Reserved 2013

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